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What Gets in the Way of Connection?
A dad friend of mine told me about his recent struggles connecting with his daughter. It is a small interaction, but illustrates an...


When Being 'Right' Hurts Connection
A dad friend of mine told me about his recent struggles connecting with his daughter. It is a small interaction, but illustrates an...


Back to Jr High...Anything But That!
I'm teaching a workshop on the secret to connecting with your preTeen and Teen this Thursday. Thinking back to my own painful experiences...


Why do we nag...when we really want to connect?
I woke my daughter up at 6am in the morning as usual. Immediately, I saw her phone by her bed, not out in the kitchen where it was...


Nagging to Connecting
I woke my daughter up at 6am in the morning as usual. Immediately, I saw her phone by her bed, not out in the kitchen where it was...


My Story, A Cautionary Tale
My name is Allison and I am a working mom of two daughters in a quiet town in California. For most of my life l have hustled for my worth...


Transform Stress to Wellness
What if you could stop stress in its tracks? What would it be worth to you to be able to notice, untangle and transform stress into...


No More Arguments!
My daughter had a fight with her friend. She yelled, 'I'm angry at you because of what you did!" My daughter felt righteous and that it...


Children Exploring Behaviors that Bring Up Fear ~ Today's Challenging Child Whisperer Support Bl
It is a heavier topic today: Teens (or any age) exploring behaviors that bring up fear in us and how to respond. This is a big issue and...


My child is driving me crazy! (part 1)
Thank you Aptos parent for sending in this challenging situation! "At the end of the day when I'm tired, I'm just trying to get things...


Lose it with my kids or...Choose something else?
It was a rainy Sunday. I asked my girls, 5 and 7 to cooperate. I hadn't gotten a work out in days and felt congested with a sinus cold....


Holiday Busy-ness Blues? Prune to Connect!
I often pay attention to too many things at once, at the expense of presence and connection. These tangled branches, growing every which...


"Ugh! There he goes again..."
"I get so irritated. He's being negative again and starts complaining and blaming the kids. I can't stand it!" One of the Mom's in my...


My 5 year old hit me!
"I have a question for you. What is the best response to my 5 year old hitting me and calling me names. I get so angry. I feel like it's...


What is the cost of being right?
I was teaching my Dad's class this week and was touched by their level of honesty and vulnerability. One of the dads shared that he...


Eureka! Thanks to ...French Braids?
I'm finding these nuggets of clarity and understanding come through the strangest vehicles. This week it was... French Braids. It was one...


The Wisdom is in the...Jelly?
Yes, Jelly. Not where I was expecting to find wisdom, but there it is. I am a stickler for not wasting food. So when my daughter opened a...


Upset? Have a Dance Party!
I know I'm in trouble when I 'need' to play Hay Day/Farm on my phone instead of the ten other pressing things on my to do list that I...


Working with Your Heart is Hard; There is Nothing More Important
There is Nothing More Satisfying Than Working with Your Heart; and it is Hard I have been building a business for the past year. It is...


I'm fine. I'm fine. I'm fine. I'm...NOT fine! What happens when we reach our boiling
We have all been there. We think we are supposed to be calm and together so when things upset us we ‘manage’ our reactions to them. Your...
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