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What is Alysa Liu's Secret?
I’m not sure how many of you caught the Winter Olympics in Italy last month—but did you see U.S. figure skater Alysa Liu? What stood out wasn’t just her performance. It was her joy . While others skated with tight faces and visible pressure, Alysa moved with ease… almost like she was free. Relaxed. Fully present. Even under Olympic-level stakes. Did you find yourself wondering: How is she doing that? When I read about her powerful comeback after stepping away from skating for


When You Know Better… But Still Lose It At Your Kid/Teen
How parent coaching with the 5 Steps To Connect Program builds skills to stop reacting and connect.


I Almost Ruined Thanksgiving: How a Triggered Moment Became a Turning Point
How the 5 Steps to Connect skill building parent coaching program turns around hard intense interactions


Why Hard Working Parents Struggle When Their Kids Don't Cooperate (and What to Do About It)
If you’re a hard-working parent—juggling responsibilities, managing a household, and trying to keep everyone on track—you might wonder why your kids don’t respond to your clear instructions, routines, or logical explanations. You love them more than anything, yet find yourself yelling, threatening, or withdrawing when they ignore you or melt down. It can feel confusing and painful: How can I handle so much at work and in life, but lose it so easily at home? You’re not alone.


Freedom from Being Emotionally Hijacked by Difficult Situations
How the 5 Steps to Connect skill building parent coaching program turns around hard intense interactions


“Why Can’t She Just Be Ready?”
How the 5 Steps to Connect skill building parent coaching program turns around hard intense interactions


From Power Struggles to Peace: A New Way to Connect with Your Child
How the 5 Steps to Connect skill building parent coaching program turns around hard intense interactions


Finding Ease After Years of Frustration
Allison's gift is to shine a light on where families are stuck, mired in conflict. As a parent coach, she has a calm reassuring presence...


Boundaries: where we get it wrong
One of the hardest parts of being a parent for me was setting limits. I found the process of creating boundaries/agreements that my child...


Your Teen Parenting Questions Answered
by Allison Livingston, 5 Steps to Connect Parent Question: "The Dealing with your strong willed teen blog had great information, thank...


Dealing with your strong willed teen
Stormy, emotional and inflexible was the climate in our home for six challenging months during our daughter’s freshman year of high...


Turn around 'bad' behavior
Kids hit. They lie. They fight and push back. Siblings argue. They refuse to do what we ask. These 'bad' behaviors are both awful and OK....


No! I'm right!!
I thought being right and getting the right answer was the goal. Doesn't everyone want to be competent, right, and achieve good results?...


When kids use your stuff without asking
Teen-Parent relationships are hard. Parent coaches can bridge the conflicts and teach the skills that will transform your family dynamics.


When a kid lies
What to do when a kid lies? Engage a parent coach to learn skills so they won't feel like the want to ever again.


The Shortcut to More Ease
Parent Coaching for Moms and Dads to help their kids fight less, cooperate more, have less resistance and more ease and fun together.


Upset? Have a Dance Party!
I know I'm in trouble when I 'need' to play Hay Day/Farm on my phone instead of the ten other pressing things on my to do list that I...


The Fear of Feeling Awkward
The Fear of Feeling Awkward "Mom...this is so awkward!" We had friends staying with us from Colorado that we last saw 12 years ago when...


In Stressful Situations I Need To Breathe. Inhale, Exhale...Right?!?!
My friend Jennifer reacted when I suggested she breathe through an upsetting, uncomfortable situation she was telling me about. I was...
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